In fact, foreplay is a crucial prerequisite for her to enjoy a mind-blowing orgasm. Read on for 14 imaginative ways to make foreplay fun for both of you. Try this great warmup The precoital massage: As a warmup to the main event, start by massaging the length of her legs, from her upper thighs down to her ankles.
Then focus on the feet, kneading her heels and all other points beneath. Then zero in on the toes and stretch them individually. Ask what turns her on Come right out and ask what she likes during sex. Is there a better place to develop your work ethic? So do what you want to do. If you like how her calves feel, stroke them. If you like her butt, kiss it. Go easy Yes, the clitoris is the obvious place to focus your attention.
Still, many men do wrong by it. The clitoris reacts best to being teased, so you want to lick it and suck on it a little, build a little tension, then back off on it a bit before going at it again. Arouse her with gentle sucking until the little button swells, then carefully expose the area with your fingers. Use the slippery underside of your tongue to circle it to the left and then to the right. With the rougher top side of the tongue, flick from right to left and then up and down.
Constantly vary the degrees of pressure you use. Expand your repertoire Expand your repertoire of oral sex with this method: You lie perpendicular to her body, which allows you to stroke her clitoris with your tongue in a crosswise motion, rather than up and down. Hold each one between your thumb and forefinger and massage it, working your way up and down. Best position for hitting the G-spot Most experts say that G-spot stimulation works best when you do it by hand, since it allows for more subtle manipulation.
But that means less fun for you. To get at her G-spot during intercourse, enter her doggy-style from the rear. Keep your hands on her hips and pull her towards you each time you thrust forward. Want more tips on how to get her off?
They know a man with strong abs is going to be great in the sack. Sexual push-ups are a great way to flex your abs for her: Then have your partner slide underneath you. This variation on the man-on-top position works extremely well for guys with flat stomachs, says sex expert Michael Perry, Ph. Sit facing your partner, legs apart. As you enter her, have her straddle your hips with her legs.
Both you and your partner should then reach backward with your arms, placing them about shoulder width apart. Keep your arms straight, and lean back onto them, so that you arch your back and slightly raise your pelvis together, your bodies will form the shape of an X. Most men only recognize that last, no-turning-back feeling, that occurs just before ejaculation, says David Copeland, of the How to Succeed with Women website.
Try to become familiar with the two or three more subtle sensations that precede that one, so that you can slow down at the right time. Try to mix up your tongue play with the occasional closed-mouth kiss on her nose, eyes, and forehead. Before you get too close to the minute mark, penetrate her as deeply as you can and then stop thrusting.
Now press your pelvic bone against hers and start shifting up and down in a kind of rocking motion. Ready for something new? Reward her bravery When she initiates the action, make an extra effort to please her sexually and to let her know how much you approve. Tell her you loved her initiation.