Sharp inhilation of breath This can indicate good or bad things, did you just scrape their sensitive cock head with your teeth? Did you just do some new little thing with your tongue? This can be seen most obviously in the face though if you look at the chest you may also see colour change there. You may notice a difference in firmness of it as you continue.
It might just be that he was uncomfortable. He grabs you roughly by the hair and starts fucking one of your face holes For your sake, I hope your mouth. This normally indicates good things for his enjoyment either way. Just remember that you are allowed to enjoy the experience too and let yourself get into a rhythm with it. Things I recommend having handy: Lubrication Something to clean up the mess with Water Lubrication Some people find that saliva is enough. Many people like a bit of something extra.
Your and his preference here, you need to worry about taste and texture, he needs to worry about texture and slipperiness. A section devoted to lubrication follows. Something to clean up the mess with Your mouth for the semen and a sink for the saliva mess on your hands on on his crotch. If for some reason your mouth is not able to clean up the semen mess worried about diseases , and the guy you gave a blowjob to is unable to find a sink, here is some secondary advice.
I have a drawer in my bedside table stocked with up to 20 bamboo cotton face cloths. Others just use paper towels. Some people enjoy leaving the mess around and just putting their clothes back on or rubbing it on the bed. Each to their own. Water Giving blowjobs uses saliva. It can be dehydrating. Lubrication Every guy is different. Lubrication during blowjobs can be natural or artificial. Some like it a bit rough, some like it completely smooth. Having his cock hit the back of your throat also seems to encourage additional saliva production.
Most people seem to have one texture of lube they like more than others. So many variables here, but I can only recommend highly paying good money for better lube. Stimulation At different phases of the blowjob, there can be too little, too much, or just the right amount of stimulation. More detail on these phases later on. The penis has a lot of nerve endings.
Some areas have more than others. The most sensitive bit is the glans, the least sensitive bit is the lower side of the shaft. From my experience, a large majority of guys cannot orgasm from shaft stimulation alone, the glans must also be stimulated. This is known as Post-Orgasm Torture. Some like it, many hate it. Some people are fine after 5 seconds, some require 5 minutes. Communication is key to work this one out. Experiment to find out what works for the guy your attention is on.
The use of the mouth is what makes it a blowjob. Some guys might like that, of course. Be very cautious of his cock near your teeth, it can be an immensely unpleasant expereince to feel like someone is trying to chew through your penis. Adjust your suction as you go. You can roll your tongue around the sides of his cock, use it to press his cock up into your palate, use it to protect his soft flesh from your hard teeth Your throat is an interesting place for a cock to go.
It can be hard to learn the technique to deep throat. Techniques of what to do when his cock is in your mouth is also beyond the scope of this PSA. If you need to take a break because your jaw is getting sore, feel free to continue stimulating him with your hands.
Press your thumb and forefinger against your lips and create a tunnel with the rest of your fingers to do this. To start, I recommend lubricating your hand be it with artificial or natural lubricants. A couple of extensions to this method: Rotate your hand around his cock as you stroke. This is particularly effective if you rotate when your hand is over his glans, as this adds a lot of interesting sensation. Grip The right grip with your hand is important. Bear in mind that even a small rotation of your hand can change his experience for better or worse, and experiment to see what works best for him.
A technique to try out is to grip around the base of his cock with the bridge between your thumb and forefinger across the top of his shaft at the base, with your thumb and forefinger wrapping around the base and behind the scrotum.
This makes his cock harder and therefore more sensitive, and it can also help to prolong his time before orgasm. That said, it makes other guys cum quicker. Angle of cock The angle of his cock relative to the position it would normally hold during an erection can have a big effect on how intensely he feels various sensations. Holding his cock at an angle pointing closer to the ground will increase his sensitivity; this may be a good or bad thing.
Bear it in mind and use it to your advantage. Gently stroking with finger tips or finger nails, holding them in your hand, grabbing around the base of them and gently or roughly, depending on the guy pulling them away from the body produces a whole lot of sensations that can add nicely to the blowjob experience. Beginning The point of the beginning bit is to get him worked up. The start of a blowjob sets the tone for the rest of it. Very gentle touches at the beginning are great for getting his cock throbbing and demanding more attention.
WIth very light and slow touches and motions, you can get away with playing with his cock completely dry though only for a few minutes. Spend some time at this point experimenting with licking and kissing different areas of his cock to see if you can judge his reactions on what he likes, this is the easiest time to work out what makes him tick. Slowly descending your warm wet mouth down his shaft for the first time during a blowjob is nearly always worthy of him holding his breath as he savors the sensation.
Continue at a slow pace for a while to get yourself warmed up as well as him. From this point onwards, unlike the previous phase, you should be giving him fairly consistent stimulation unless you get into the situation of over-stimulation and he needs a short recovery time. Note that going as fast as you can will not necessarily help him reach orgasm. The biggest problem that people seem to hit when they get to this phase is going too fast.
As noted in the Using your hands: Steadying his cock section, keeping the cock steady will likely help with his orgasm. Increasing speed makes this harder to do so you should be careful of this gotcha.
What you do during his orgasm can massively change his experience of it. This is where you should try to remember some of the things that have been doing it for him up to this point and try to utilise them. Where is he going to ejaculate? What stimulation are you going to give him during his orgasm?
Are you going to keep your mouth on his cock but not swallow? Are you going to keep your mouth on his cock and swallow? Off a balcony of a 15th story apartment onto the street below? That is hard to get out. This is where preparation is important.
Leaving your mouth on his cock and swallowing That sure makes clean up easier. The position of his cock in your mouth can make this easier on you, especially depending on your preference of the taste as well. If you like the taste, then having the cock shallow in your mouth means you get this all over your tongue and you can do what you like from there. Just remember to aim, because some guys shoot their load a long way when they cum.
Try continuing to bob your head up and down on his cock during his orgasm to continue some stimulation, and use your hand on whatever bit of his shaft is exposed. This is a very interesting sensation for the receiver, though will depend on his tastes as to whether he enjoys this or not. One way to find out though. It is an immensely intense stimulation to receive and is very hard to control yourself during. I recommend leaving that to the guy himself, as his cock will be very sensitive and someone else cleaning it up can be a very uncomfortable experience.
Soft towels are preferable, kitchen paper towels will do in a pinch. Nothing tells a man how much you worship his body when after you are done giving him a blowjob you have a warm towel and wash off his penis and crotch.
The biggest secrets behind his greatest blowjob. All technique, no matter how good it is, means absolutely nothing without real enthusiasm. Because enthusiasm is probably the biggest factor in satisfying a man.
A blowjob is always nice for men, but a blowjob where their penis becomes the greatest cock in the world for minutes, makes every man daydream about that experience.
A man or woman that deepthroats, loves dick.