There are a lot of things that straight-sized people do not know about being fat and in love. What if I told you that not only can fat people be happy, they can also be loved by an array of folks with different body types? That we, too, can have beautiful whirlwind romances and fairytale weddings? Maybe you want to be an ally to fat people and stop hating your body.
Perhaps you want to empathetically lean in to a conversation that needs to be had. People shamelessly stare as though fat people, especially fat women and feminine folks, are animals. If you think you are being stealthy, think again. Fat Sex is Great. Despite the fatphobic nonsense that you may have heard or read, fat sex is great. In fact, many of my plus-sized partners were much more acrobatic lays than their trim counterparts.
If mobility is an issue for you, there are an array of devices to help you get to the perfect orgasm. From body wedges that elevate the ass or pelvis to slings that swing you back and forth to your partner to plus-size harnesses, there are tons of toys out there that people of any size can utilize.
Jan 20, at 8: A post shared by Laurel Dickman laureldickmanwrites on Feb 21, at 1: Maybe big, strong calves are incredibly attractive to you or soft, pillowy lips make your knees weak. These traits may be bonuses for you, but not deal-breakers if the person does not have them. My previous partner was a thin, average-height man who was very attracted to tall, soft-bodied, powerful feminine partners.
He also liked muscular bodies of all genders and saw a different kind of power within each one. Because he had greater social capital at first glance, it was assumed that I was just some weird fling, fetish or social experiment. A post shared by Manon Edwards chicwithcurves on Jan 18, at 1: There are tons of amazing, active fat parents out there. Many people assume that fat people who get pregnant are guaranteed to have gestational diabetes or other pregnancy difficulties.
A post shared by Ingrid Rachel vintagecitylady on Nov 13, at Big bodies are not just social experiments, nor are we just fetishes. Stop reducing us and trying to explain away our existence. The next time you see a fat person smiling and enjoying their partner, be happy for them.
We can all find happiness. It just helps if you stop being such a jerk first. Please respect that by not making assumptive comments.