The first time it was at his place, the second time it was in his car. The sex was adventurous because what we were doing was adventurous, and we both had no expectations. It was easy, uncommitted, and exciting. He told me to close the door behind me, so I really thought I did something wrong.
I honestly thought I was getting fired. He gave me this weird look like something was bothering him, and then asked me if I liked baseball. I was so confused. I told him I watched it on TV sometimes, and he said his friend gave him two tickets to the game that night. He made it sound like we could discuss work at the game, and I basically believed him because I was so clueless that he would ever even be interested in me.
He told me we could go straight from work, together. I finally started to realize this was his way of asking me out, and I found it strangely cute. He was really different outside of the office. When the game was over he insisted on driving me home, which again I thought was really nice. When we got to my building, we were sitting in the car and he told me he had a really nice time, all the sudden he started leaning in for a kiss and I was caught so off guard but also so intrigued.
I let him kiss me, and because of how much I enjoyed the kiss I invited him upstairs. He gladly accepted the invitation, and slept over that night.
We went to work together the next morning. It was so random, but I loved every minute of it. It was actually kind of funny how we had to make it look like we came to work separately. On one of those long drives he asked me about my wedding that never happened. He told me my ex was crazy for not marrying me. It was the first time he had ever said anything like that, and since he took the chance I wanted to take one too.
I told him to pull over, and he looked at me like I was crazy. He was an executive and I was an assistant. One day I was in the kitchen looking for a fork for my salad, and I was basically opening and closing every single drawer, probably making way more noise than necessary.
He was a lot older than me, but he was one of those really good looking older guys, that hot salt and pepper look. One day we were both in the kitchen again and he suggested that we eat somewhere together where there was more of a selection than granola bars and water bottles. He was so smooth. I, of course, fell for him. He took me out to an extremely overpriced restaurant, told me to order anything on the menu, and took me back to his place after.
Of course he lived in a house with a pool AND a jacuzzi and of course he got me naked in both of them. I never slept with him again, and I avoided the office kitchen at all costs after that. I always packed a lunch and made sure nothing in it needed to be refrigerated or microwaved. He was super tan from being out on the sports field all day, and built perfectly…from being out on the sports field all day.
I would see him around the camp all the time, and every time my group had sports I basically prayed he would lead the activity. Unfortunately, that never happened. BUT one day after camp when I was walking to my car, I heard someone call my name. I had the biggest crush on him so naturally I was really nervous when he approached me.
He introduced himself and told me that he saw me around camp a lot and would love to get to know me more. My heart seriously dropped. I actually felt like I was floating and I think my smile ate my face it was so big. We exchanged numbers and started texting that weekend. He was a great texter. He asked me to see an outdoor movie with him which I thought was absolutely adorable. We had our own little blanket and sat in the grass and it was the cutest thing ever.
When the movie ended we stayed after everyone else had got up and left. We were talking about camp and sharing stupid stories about the kids we took care of everyday. We did it right there on that blanket, and it was perfect, basically the best summer romance of my life, and the other camp directors never found out.
I knew exactly what I was getting myself into. It was really uncomfortable, and I was too busy thinking about whether or not everyone could hear us to truly enjoy it. Having sex in an office gets old pretty quick despite what others may think.
I will never have sex with a boss again even if it means a monthly bonus.