The old year has washed away, and the new year is upon us. And here are 9 great sex tips for HER to help you do that! Maybe last year was tough. You got into a rut. But new positions can make things feel more exciting. I have one particular position I stick with for two main reasons: Moving around during sex, and changing positions, has several benefits: A new position can honestly feel great!
Move your legs around and find a good angle. Or whatever works for you! So maybe two times are fun and simple, but the spice the third time up. Great Sex Tips for Her 2: But with one simple trick you can make it so much better. Just tilt your pelvis up like squeeze your butt muscles, and your pelvis will tilt forward. Just try it right now—tilt your pelvis. We all want sex to feel great. But I also talk about how sex was meant to be more than just physical: And when all three are working, sex can be stupendous.
Great Sex Tips for Her 3: It shows he cares, it helps our bodies relax, and it helps us calm down mentally, too. Great Sex Tips for Her 4: What feels good to one person does not necessarily feel good to another. And men tend to like being touched very differently than women do men like things rougher and more deliberate; women tend to like things lighter. Also, just because something is an erotic zone does not mean that it wants to be touched all the time. Take a session or two where you play teacher.
Tell him exactly what to do, like he is a pupil and he has to do everything you say. Pay attention to your body, and ask him to do anything you want. You can even be quite demanding! Then the next time turn the tables and let him be teacher.
You just may learn a lot about each other. Great Sex Tips for Her 5: Think Pressure, not Friction Men tend to feel aroused by friction—he likes the rubbing back and forth.
Instead of thrusting all the way out and all the way in, then, try for part of making love to get him as deep as possible and and thrust only a little bit, so that the pressure is quite intense all the time. To help this, try wrapping your legs around him, or even have him kneel while you lie down to help him go deeper. Other positions, like having you lie on your stomach while he lies on top of you, can help with pressure, too.
You use your Kegel muscles the ones on the wall of vagina. Great Sex Tips for Her 7: It often enhances the pleasure right away. You may not need it all the time, but most women fluctuate through the month with their ability to get aroused quickly, and with the amount of lubrication we naturally produce. Some nights may be great, and others may not. Menopause or breastfeeding and pregnancy throw another wrench in the whole thing. Lubricant can help you get a leg up, so to speak, so that sex is arousing right away.
Great Sex Tips for Her 8: Think of foreplay not as something that he does to you, but as something that you BOTH do. Rub yourself against him. Climb on top of him and feel him. Take his hand and put it where you want it to go. Circle your hips and help him. Great Sex Tips for Her 9: No More Erotica or Porn If you want sex to feel amazing, you need to be aroused by your husband ONLY, and not be fantasizing about something else in your head.
That ends up feeling cheap and impersonal. Commitment is the best aphrodisiac. If you want more information about this, check out this ebook by Covenant Eyes about what sex does to your brain.
Sex is so wonderful: And, of course, there are days that help it feel great and spice things up, too. Pick it up today!
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