There are not that many transgendered lady boys in the world, and it's even harder to find them live online. We do have a few from the most popular video sex chat networks for you to check out however. I would like to note that it is not our intention to use this term as a slur in any way shape or form. You can read the comment thread here where we learned of shemale considered a slur, and our decision to change the name of that chat room.
Ready to see the sexy shemales, lovely ladyboys, tantalizing trannys, and hot chicks with dicks? From the wikipedia article suggested in the comments linked above: Many transgendered women are offended by this categorization and call themselves T-girls or trans. I personally think that many men out there find terms such as those as a way to bridge the gap into checking out some bisexual and even gay entertainment, and that it does help them to find it more acceptable to look into it.
Certainly not all men are going to think it's okay to be gay as long as a certain term is associated with it, but I do think that there is a large percentage of people in the world who are at least partially bisexual, who may not claim it as a title, but want to enjoy the fantasy, and may only be comfortable enjoying those fantasies if it is within a context that is not abruptly gay. The amount of people claiming they are gay or bisexual as compared to those who have actually engaged in such sexual acts is not the same.
So people may not be as ready to claim and use the proper terminology as those who are out and proud in the LGBT community, but I do not think that we need to consider the term shemale as one that is used as an intentional slur.
I am all for educating people that the term may have other connotations associated with it, and those who live the lifestyle may not appreciate it, and would instead prefer to called t-grils or whatever, but I think for many years we will still see this term used in a way to help others who are ignorant of the lifestyle terms and are interested in learning more about it, if nothing else to engage in the sexual fantasy, or curios entertainment.
There are still so many people who are completely ignorant about LGBT lifestyles, I myself thought I knew more than the average bear, and yet was schooled by the recent chatter here in I was hanging out with T-girls in , not just at a drag show, but at home and at parties.
I have attended many events and hung out with many people in the LGBT community, and so I have never intended to use any terms describing any part of the community in a negative way.
I am glad to have learned that some in the community are sensitive to certain words, and I hope that the world will change to give a better understood way of describing transgender men and women. It starts talking about how in Pakistan T-girls have been treated as non citizens for the most part, and are only really accepted when men have bachelor parties before a wedding which strictly forbid any women from being in their presence, then they enjoy drag shows and spend lots of money on them.
The article also presented info that in Thailand the transgender community is widely open, they are commonly known as ladyboys, and they do not hide from the world around them, they work openly just about everywhere and are even in soap operas on television.
I was already aware of this, and had brought that up in the comments with Allie, but what surprised me was the info in the article that talked about them being shunned, and even outlawed in many other parts of the world. It says that in Malaysia Muslim men who wear women's clothes can be prosecuted in Islamic courts. It mentions that parts of Indonesia are seeing an increase in attacks on crossdressers from Muslim hard liners.
I knew the world had a long way to go to accept and understand the LGBT community, but seeing so much progress in the United States, and with so much more communication available via the internet, I had thought that worldwide people would be getting more open about it, not less. So there are not too many T-girls in the world, and some parts of the worlds make it very difficult to live as such, even for those who are not confused about it.
That's too bad, most of the T-girls I have known are truly beautiful people, and I mean that about the inside person, not just he outer appearance. As long as the world tried to keep T-girls down, it will just increase the value for those who want to be entertained by them.
The drag shows here in our city when being gay or trans is fairly common still rake in big tips for the performers, and they have shows pretty much seven days a week, not just before weddings.
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