I am NOT responsible if your neighbors complain about the noise. With sexual trust a woman is most likely to scream in bed. As men, we really, really like it when a woman totally loses control of herself from coming so hard, and she just screams her head off.
Well, I make them scream— And you can too. Let that one sink in for a moment. It was the act of letting themselves go enough… it was allowing themselves to relax and just let it out… it was the release of their inhibitions to make noise… And that simultaneously released their inhibitions to fully experience an orgasm unlike anything they had experienced before.
Having a screaming orgasm can be a self-perpetuating cycle for a woman. Allowing themselves to make noise makes them come harder, sometimes even MUCH harder, which makes them scream more, which makes them come harder… You get the idea. They can only achieve these heights with an expert lover— somebody who they can surrender control to. Have you ever done something with a buddy that you would have been afraid to do alone?
She needs you to take her by the hand and guide her. And it may sound a bit vague or confusing when you first encounter the idea. It lets her experiment with making more noise without the neighbors noticing. And it is through her emotions that she will eventually reach the point of trust and intimacy to release herself.
What music should you play? Play the music that SHE wants to hear. What YOU think it sexy music is all well and good, but right now we are working on HER feelings, and the music that makes her feel a sense of sexual abandonment might really surprise you. Tell her to say your name. The idea is to make her engage her vocal cords when she is at the height of her excitement or when she is actually having an orgasm. You can do this sweetly, dominantly, teasingly… as long as it is firm and not tentative on your part.
This allows her to feel a surrender of control as she is approaching orgasm. It is a nice, bonding thing for her to associate you and the sound of your name coming out of her own mouth, to her most profound pleasure.
So putting your name into her thoughts is nice. Okay, now we are going to move into some slightly more advanced territory. One of the most powerful ways to get her to release her inner banshee is to completely eliminate any hint of your own sexual shyness or shame. Women have very strong intuition, and they sense when we are uncomfortable.
However, if you want her to be completely uninhibited in bed, it is asking an awful lot if you are coming to bed with a bunch of your own insecurities. What kinds of things will tip her off? The most secure and powerful thing you can do in the bedroom is to be authentic. And the other big one is to express passion yourself. Very few men have the confidence it takes to show their true passion and really lose themselves in the act of making love.
Those that do win instant trust and passion in return. You can fake it and get some results, but in the end, authenticity is king. If you want to really take a woman to the next level of sexual pleasure, have the courage to be vulnerable and authentic with your passion.
If you follow these simple steps, it should not take long before your previously shy woman is screaming her head off, waking up the neighbors, and begging you for more. Trust me, this is bad. And you have been warned. As I mentioned, getting a woman to open to the idea of making noise is a pretty good tip for giving a woman who has never experienced an orgasm, her very first one.
And that alone can be a beautifully bonding experience that leads to even deeper Sexual Trust, and even more powerful sexual adventures together. Want to learn more about pleasing a woman in bed? Since he has been studying and refining his heart-centered theories on sexuality and relationships. Through his writing, lectures, videos, and public appearances, he has helped tens of thousands of men, women, and couples achieve greater confidence, intimacy, relationship health, and love.
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