Yet, most men consider sexting to be dangerous territory… …when really, it should be something you embrace. The thrill you get from escalating with a girl, turning her on, and getting her excited to meet up with you, makes sexting a lot of fun.
So listen up, because if you want to discover how to sext her the right way, then first you need to witness the wrong way! Because your sexts will never get her horny to meet up if you repeatedly make any one of these 14 mistakes… Read on to discover the 14 shameful mistakes men make when sexting a girl. If you escalate too quick, you risk scaring her off, just like in this text: Instead, try to assess the situation: Just try and learn to tame the beast a little.
Some girls are just not comfortable sharing intimate pics of themselves over the internet. Like a fine wine, all good things take time.
Play the waiting game and allow her to become more comfortable sexting you. So maybe think twice about sending an artsy shot of your member with the latest instagram filter. Sexting a girl the right way is like writing a novel. Your sexts should tell a story — slowly build, be full of suspense, and end on cliffhangers. You want your texts to build sexual tension, conjure up exciting plot lines, and throw in twists to leave her horny and wanting more.
How good you are at sexting is basically defined by your story telling abilities. You need to create vivid fantasies in her head, with you, the main character, fucking her. Same goes for potty talk. Keep your sexts somewhat tasteful and defecation free. The 50 Shades of Grey sadomasochism theme is popular for sexting role play , but often gets overplayed. But try mixing it up and experimenting with other themes when you sext her. Let your imagination run wild. Like your favourite TV soap series, use cliff hangers to keep her coming back for more.
So you can imagine why joking around with sexting is a terrible mistake. Theres a time and a place for goofing around. Same applies with sexting. Another GOT reference for you. Sending obscure references and analogies in your sexts will only confuse her. Women love to sext. Probably more than we do. But I understand this can be easier said than done…. Getting comfortable with talking the right language takes time. Then see if she takes the bait and plays along.
If she complies, this is your cue to start escalating your sexts — start by being more obvious with your sexual references: Then progress onto fantasy story telling, experimenting with more explicit language, and pushing for a meet up. The whole point of sexting is to get a girl uncontrollably horny and gagging to meet up with you! And with this, there is no better time to ask her out. It really is that easy to transition a fantasy into a meet up.
Or say she suggestively complains about being cold in bed, text her saying: And most guys are guilty of this. Without it, your relationships will either fizzle out or land you in the friend zone. Wrapping it up The first step is understanding where you might have gone wrong.