I'd say my average call is probably around the minute mark. Of course I have some three-hour calls and some three-minute calls. Could you do this full time? You get more calls at night and on the weekend. If you were to do it during the weekdays, I don't know how busy you'd be, but I know you do still get some calls. The tricky thing about it is that you're kinda waiting around for calls. You can't really get into anything you can't quickly get out of. Webcams do pay a lot more and I've been thinking about getting into that, but the level of work goes up quite a bit, too.
I'd actually have to wear what I say I'm wearing. What are the job requirements? For my company at least you have to be 18, have to have a landline phone, you have to have internet connection and AIM installed, you have to have a clear phone voice, and you have to be willing to take the taboo calls.
We're not allowed to hang up because someone is freakier than we like. What does a typical day look like for you? My typical schedule is spending the mornings with my daughter, then I take her to daycare and go to work until 7: I come home and have dinner with my husband and our daughter, put her to bed, log in, then my husband and I hang out while I wait for calls. Usually we can manage to get in a little quality time between calls.
How do you balance having so little time for yourself? It's hard, I'll admit. The nice thing about being a contracted employee is that they can't tell you when to work. So if I want the night off, I just send them a message saying I'm taking the night off. I don't usually work on the weekends unless I'm bored and want to make extra money.
I'm stretched pretty thin some days. My friends and my sisters know about the phone sex, but I haven't told my mom. How does your husband feel about you talking to other men this way? My husband doesn't mind the talking, except that it interrupts our TV watching. He had to wait 40 minutes last night to resume the episode of "Bates Motel" we were watching. He isn't the jealous type , and he knows that it's just a job.
Will you ever tell your daughter about what you do? I will tell my daughter someday when she's old enough to understand it. I think how I explain it to my daughter will depend on her age. I think that explaining that mommy's job is to talk to people on the phone is a decent summary when she's young. Honestly, my day job is in a call center, so it's not really that different. As she gets older, if I'm still doing it, I'll explain more to her. I'm going to have to eventually explain sex, porn, all of that.
I feel like this is just another extension of that. I plan on doing it as long as it's still fun and I'm making money. It's really important for me that it's my choice to do it. Advertisement My husband had a bad habit for a little while of saying things like "shouldn't you clock in now? If it's not my choice, if I feel pushed into it in any way, I'll quit. What kind of callers do you usually get? An overwhelming amount of the guys I talk to fit into one of two categories.
A They are lonely and need some kind of connection. They need a woman to just laugh at their joke or listen while they talk. Or B They are into something that they can't ethically explore in any other way but with another consenting adult incest, bestiality, etc.
Sometimes the guys fit into both categories. How do you handle callers who just want an emotional connection? It doesn't bother me to talk to the guys who want a connection. They tend to be a lot nicer than most. It's sad that talking to me is the highlight of their week for some of them, but I'm glad I can fill that role for them. It makes me feel more like a human being and less like a human fleshlight.