I recently wrote about rope bondage , and how one study found that more and more women are open to trying it. But what about other kinks and fetishes — for example, sensual biting? Yeah, you heard that right — biting. Many women enjoy slightly rough sex on a pretty regular basis, and this includes the act of biting during foreplay or intercourse.
What Exactly Is Sexual Biting? Sexual biting, otherwise known as odaxelagnia, can be roughly defined as this: The act of creating or enhancing sexual arousal through biting. It might sound counterintuitive, but biting can be extremely pleasurable when done correctly.
But why exactly does biting turn her on so quickly? The way it works is pretty simple — when you bite a woman during foreplay or sex, the shock to her body catches her mind off guard.
This can be further enhanced by biting in different areas, which can vary greatly depending on the woman.
She may also moan or suck in her breath quickly — these are pretty good indicators that your biting is exciting her. When you try nibbling on her neck, if she seems to enjoy it, ask her outright: Whether you want to just jump into it or would rather introduce it slowly, here are a few ways that you can start having hotter sex with sexual biting as soon as tonight: Instead, nibble around those areas first, and wait until she begs you to start going harder.
For example, after kissing her or throwing her down on the bed, try touching her body all over as you nibble her neck. Work your way down her body, but move slowly and only bite her here or there every couple minutes or so. Too much biting could end up hurting her. Using dirty talk during this stage can also get her very, very excited for the oncoming sex. The best way to test these waters is to bite and release a second or two later — just long enough to shock her body without actually hurting her.
Once the two of you become more comfortable with biting, you can try prolonging it or playing with the pressure of your teeth. The way he touched me… how he was juuuust rough enough…. It was like he was a completely new man!