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Lick, Lick, Lick It Licking his penis is a powerful blow job technique for beginning your blow job. It serves as a sort of oral sex foreplay that will build sexual tension and have him begging you to take him in your mouth…which is exactly what you want. Licking his cock is super easy. Try focusing of licking the tip of his penis the glans using the least amount of pressure possible. Many guys report this being their absolute favorite blow job technique.
You can even try doing this for your entire blow job until he comes. More on this here. The Topside of your Tongue — The top side of your tongue provides the most stimulation thanks to your taste buds. So focus on using this side when licking him. You can simply lick them, but I describe many other ways to stimulate his balls for maximum pleasure here.
If you want to give your man back-arching, toe-curling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these sex techniques in my private and discreet newsletter. You'll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship. Anilingus — There are two other excellent locations besides his penis and balls that can massively add to his pleasure and make him see you as an oral sex goddess even if they are not strictly part of a regular BJ.
His perineum or perineal raphe, the rough patch of skin located just behind his balls as well as his anus contain a lot of nerve endings [ 3 ]. Tonguing these areas, up and down or in a circular motion is an awesome way to stimulate them. This technique is called anilingus, and you can find out more about it here. Wetter Is Better So try to produce as much saliva as possible. The female equivalent is the clitoris.
So focusing your attention on the tip of his penis is going to work well to push him over the edge in the most intense and pleasurable way possible. There are a number of different techniques you can use to pleasure the tip of his penis. Check it out here to learn how. With saliva on your lips, gently run them over his penis.
Use your lips to gently suck on the top of his penis. The Twister — Using your tongue and lots of saliva, you can perform a ultra-pleasurable and satisfying blow job technique I like to call the Twister. While holding his penis steady in one or both hands, start making a slow circular motion with your tongue around the top of his penis. You can alternate direction and speed to add some variety, but this blissful blow job technique alone is enough to give him a thrilling blow job from start to finish.
Deep Throat — Deep throating your man, is more advanced blow job technique, but when done right, it can deeply gratify and sexually satisfy your man. This extra pleasure is thanks to the back of your throat. As you take him deep into your mouth, eventually your tonsils and the back of your throat will come into contact with the tip of his penis. The slight spasming of your throat thanks to your gag reflex will make it more enjoyable and stimulating for your man, along with the fact that the rest of your mouth and tongue will be stimulating the shaft of his dick.
You can learn more about deep throating your man here in Chapter 7 of the Blow Job Guide. Slip Inside — A less advanced fellatio technique that is almost as effective at providing him with intense delight and stimulation as deep throating him is using the inside of your mouth. However, using them is a great way to give your mouth and jaw a break. With plenty of saliva or lube, try gently running your fingers over and back the top of his penis and listen as he uncontrollably groans in pleasure.
You can learn more handjob techniques to give your man from the in-depth Hand Job Guide here. Mastering this first is a smart way to get comfortable giving your boyfriend a blow job before progressing to more advanced techniques and tactics for giving him oral pleasure like sucking him tips on sucking him here. Next, you are simply going to bob your head up and down, taking his penis in and out of your mouth.
Bobbing your head up and down is super simple to start with, especially if you just concentrate on the top inch or two of his penis. As you get comfortable with this, try taking him deeper and deeper with each stroke so that you can stimulate more and more of his penis. Taking him deeper and deeper into your mouth runs the risk of triggering your gag reflex[ 5 ]. Try not to worry about this. Then you are going suck on it gently. Sucking on it will cause your lips and the inside of you mouth to press softly against his shaft and the head of his cock, stimulating the length of it.
While doing this, you can take his penis in and out of your mouth, allowing you to pleasure it entirely. While sucking him, you can add some variation by using your tongue to massage his penis too.
Awesome Sauce Using the same techniques over and over can eventually become boring for your man and you! Some women think that to vary things, they need an endless list of blow job techniques and different things they can do with their mouth or tongue or lips to provide different sensations to their man. There are much simpler ways to spice up your blow job routine. Awesome Sauce is just using something like maple syrup or warm chocolate syrup, cream, champagne, ice cream or even ice cubes in your mouth while you go about your regular blow job routine.
Champagne — There is something intensely sexy about champagne, especially when you use it during a BJ. The next time you and your man have some alone time, try slipping into some lingerie and popping open a bottle of champagne. Next have a little sip and with the champagne in your mouth, take your man in your mouth and start performing fellatio on him. There is something about the entire act of giving your man a champagne blow job and making him cum that is super arousing and sexy.
The added benefit of having champagne or ice cream or anything tasty in your mouth, is that it drowns out the taste of his sperm and semen when he does ejaculate. Perfect if you can stand how he tastes. To prevent the champagne flowing out of your mouth, make sure you are below your man when giving him head, so being on your knees while he is standing works well here. Give Him A Hand Using your hands is a powerful blow job technique while giving your man oral sex.
In fact, you can give your guy way more pleasure and enjoyment by using your hands on his penis and balls during your blow job. Simply take the first inch or two of his penis into your mouth and then wrap one hand around his shaft. While using a simple technique like the Suck On This technique I described in Chapter 2 , you can also run your hand up and down his shaft at the same time, giving him a handjob. Allowing your hands to take over while you give your mouth a rest means that your man gets to receive unbroken pleasure.
So when you feel your mouth becoming tired, grab hold of his penis and start jerking him off for a minute or two. Then when your mouth is rested, you can go back to giving him a oral sex. Work His Balls — Another great hand job technique you can incorporate into your blow job is working his testicles or balls. There are so many different things that you can do to his testicles with your hands while giving him a blow job, from fondling to caressing to tickling to massaging them.
Try experimenting to see what your man enjoys the most. Whatever you can do to his penis with your mouth, you can do to his balls. Kiss His Balls — An easy way to see if your man enjoys you playing with his balls is to start by gently kissing them. Just purse your lips together and give them a few soft, wet kisses. Lick His Balls — Once you can see how much he enjoys you kissing his balls, take it up a notch by gently licking and massaging them with your tongue.
Keeping your tongue flat so that it covers as much of his testicles as possible is best. Edible lubricant works great here too. So you can kiss them, lick them and even suck them. A powerful technique is gently taking one of his balls into your mouth and then softly lick and suck on it.
All About Eye Contact Making eye contact with your man while giving him head can be super intimate and intense and even a bit submissive. The key to doing it right is understanding two caveats… Too Intense? You can immediately break the sexual tension and kill the atmosphere if you are trying awkwardly to maintain eye contact with your man during a blow job.
You wish it would come faster, but the entire slow, drawn out process is still incredibly enjoyable. More importantly, all that build up makes your orgasm far more intensely when you do eventually climax. Well…why not use this to your advantage. The next time you are giving your man a blow job, try backing off a bit and spend a minute or two doing something else entirely like: