A refusal at this point can be a big blow to the ego, so you want to make the right move. So what should you do? Without being either too forward or too wishwashy, how can you let her know that you are ready for the main act? Here are the steps to follow! Get her on your own turf — and be prepared!
Invite her to dinner cook yourself, preferably and do not skimp on the preparations. Cultivate a romantic, comfortable atmosphere. The girls are not as innocent as they would have us believe! She knows that this is your territory and she expects you to show herwhat to do.
This will make her feel more comfortable. Once dinner is finished, try to organize things to maximize the opportunity for physical contact. Well, by offering to watch a movie together, for example. Unfortunately for her, your television in your room! If not, move the set from the living room, or watch a DVD on your computer. This is the perfect excuse to take your partner directly to the scene of the crime! When she is finally in your room, her behavior should change and become gradually more open to your advances.
One word of warning: The differences in sound and images, especially with ads, can disrupt this romantic moment. Just slowly start physical contact,liketouching her arm or placing your arm around her.
It is important to take your time from this point on. Take your time letting the sexual tension build. Show her that you have feelings for her. Tell her that you want her. However she answers, it is important to listen, and not force her in to anything If she brings up negative experiences from the past, let her know that you are different, that you just want to act on the attraction and feelings you have for her.
Ask her questions about the two of you: Touch her tenderly while talking about this. You want to make the possibility of having sex into a reality, and you want your partner to become less nervous and decide that she wants to do it with you. She is what makes you feel like this — and now you want to show her how powerful her effect on you is. Fortunately, you do not need to spoil the mood,since your condoms are handy!