This video shows you how to take a woman to a climax which will make her ejaculate uncontrollably - a G spot orgasm - one of the most exciting and satisfying orgasms it's possible for a woman to experience. We Have The Answer!
Do you wonder if you are doing things right with your woman in bed? Are you looking for an effective way to bring your partner to orgasm when you make love? Then find out here how you can do this by clicking on this link - work out ways to give orgasmic pleasure in bed! And that's every time you make love! Questions about man on top which have been emailed to us over the years - and our answers!
A young man emailed: Our best sex position is man on top. I love holding my partner down and being able to look into her eyes as I push my penis into her - gently or more forcefully, depending on how we feel, whether we're making love or enjoying more powerful sex. We also do some role play, safe enough within the bedroom, about her fantasy of being taken against her will. We'd only do that in the context of a loving relationship, but she can look into my eyes and see the desire there as I enter her, and I guess that lets her fantasize about how much men might want to have sex with her.
Whatever, the eye contact is important to us - it makes sex more connected, more exciting, more arousing. And for men, there's that amazing moment of pushing into her, of parting her labia, of sliding my penis into her juicy, hot, wet cunt those are her words, not mine, by the way!
We can also maneuver ourselves so that my penis rubs on her G spot, and stimulates her in a way she just can't resist. If we go on long enough, she will even have a vaginal orgasm - a G spot orgasm - which lasts much longer and makes her more excited than a clitoral orgasm. We find her clitoral orgasms tend to be short lived, and centered around her pelvis, while her G spot orgasms involve her whole body.
Anyhow, that's a few of the reasons why we like man on top! I'd love to know what other men and women think. Well, like most men I like to see my wife's behind in the air - it really gets me thinking, I want to be in there! And it's very sexy, but the thing about it is that there isn't necessarily much tightness, although she can hold her legs together and that improves it.
She's had two kids, so the best position for tightness is a variation of man on top where she holds her legs together and I push into her. I have a long penis so I can get deep enough to make this pleasurable for both of us. I doubt it would work too well for a man whose penis was shorter. Second reader male observes: Man on top used to be so unpopular but more and more people are realizing how good it is!
Watching my woman orgasm is an amazing sight. We do this by having her thrust up and down as I penetrate her deeply - this way, her clitoris rubs or bangs against my pubic mound, and she comes quite quickly. And to feel her coming while I'm still inside her is amazing. The only other position we can do this is when we're in the side by side position. Man on top is great, but you should try the scissors! You the woman have one of his legs between yours and you then grind yourself against his thigh.
By adjusting how much pressure you exert in this position, you can stimulate your clitoris and come quite easily. A second woman replies: I need my clitoris to be stimulated to reach orgasm, and one position where we can do this is with my man on top when I have my legs vertically up with him kneeling in front of them and pushing into me. He loves the deep penetration, and he loves watching me as I climax as he plays with my clit.
A second man responds: My wife was very embarrassed about her body when we met and would never try sex in the rear entry position. But after we had tried man on top in the dark, we moved to man on top with the lights on, then we enjoyed man on top in every room in the house - maybe that's why it's our favorite! We spent so much time trying man on top that it came as a surprise when she suggested that we do something different - it was even more of a surprise when she suggested the rear entry position!
I'm happy to say we have sex that way a lot now, but our favorite is still man on top - it just feels best for us both! The best position for me is the man on top position with my partner lying on the bed face down. I can enter her from behind and reached around to play with her clit, and this is the only way she can come when I am inside her - I think it has something to do with the pressure of the bed on her clitoris. And she tells me that she likes to feel my weight on top of her - so I usually don't support myself too much in this position, but let my weight rest on her.
When she tells me she would like me to raise myself, it takes the pleasure down a little for me, because I find I have to focus on keeping myself up on my arms, and this is a bit of a strain. A question from a reader of the site, and answers from other readers: My girl and I've just started having sex, and so we're trying out all kinds of sex positions. We started in the man on top position, but I couldn't get the rhythm right, and my penis kept popping out of her.
Should I be thrusting, which is how I thought it would be, or should I be doing what I was doing, which was sliding my whole body up and down hers, so as to move my cock in and out of her vagina? Is that why I kept sliding out? The correct movement in sex depends on what position you're using. For man on top, you have to ensure that your hips are free to move, so that you can thrust your penis in and out of your partner's vagina.
To do this, you need to support your weight on your lower legs and arms or hands, so that your pelvis is free to make the thrusting movements which will move your penis in and out. If you simply lie on top of her, you may find that you can't move correctly, because you certainly don't want to be sliding your whole body up and down hers! Obviously if you are in the rear entry position, then you make your pelvic thrusts in a different way - you move your pelvis back and forth from the hips.
This isn't directly an answer to your question, but when I started having sex I found that I couldn't feel where my penis was in her vagina because we were using condoms. Now that we're in a stable relationship and I'm simply entering her without a condom, I find I can judge the position of my penis in her vagina much better. Also, the other thing that made a difference is that I wasn't drawing back far enough on the outward stroke, because I thought my penis was shorter than average and it is a bit, at about five inches!
Without pulling out far enough, you won't have much of a stroke. The only other thing I'd add is that you need to be able to talk to your girlfriend about this, and you need to be able to experiment sexually in a relaxed way.
That helps you communicate much better. There are plenty of alternatives. You don't have to just stick to one rigid formula when you have sex. For example, you can put your penis into her then simply lie still and enjoy the feelings as you "twitch" your penis, or she clasps you with her vaginal muscles. Then you can churn your penis around in a circular motion by moving your hips around in a circle. Or you can make small in and out movements that stimulate the outer part of her vagina.
You don't have to make deep thrusts - indeed, you don't have to do this in any position - you can just play around and see what you enjoy. Making deep thrusts will make you come quickly, anyway, so even if your girl wants to feel you thrusting you may find that sex doesn't last very long!
Also, don't forget that sex positions with the woman on top can be much better for both partners. The man is saved the effort of thrusting, which can be tiring, and can make him come quickly.
The woman is able to move her clitoris against the base of his penis so that she can find the exact movement or angle of entry which allows her clitoris or G spot to be stimulated - that way she may be able to reach orgasm during intercourse.