We consulted some sex experts and adult performers — people who make sex their business — to see what positions are the best for women to enjoy. It seems that while yoga-tastic, wildly inventive advanced sex positions may be great for a change now and then, what women love the most is really missionary.
Missionary Carlee Ranger Missionary is one of the most popular sex positions for a reason: But besides that, missionary is my number-one position because I can control the angle of my pelvis to make sure he's really hitting just the right spot.
I can do the same in cowgirl, I'm just more of a girl-on-the-bottom kinda girl! Legs On Chest Carlee Ranger One of the great things about missionary is that there are plenty of ways to spice it up, says Morse. Women will still love this variation because the clenched thighs provide the same amount of clitoral stimulation if not more and allow for a little more hip movement to help your partner hit that sweet spot.
Stacked Spooning Carlee Ranger If we were going by most enjoyable positions for men, doggy style would definitely make the cut. For women, on the other hand, doggy style is not always a slam-dunk. Morse suggests a variation of doggy-style that both men and women can get behind, if you'll pardon the pun.
Have your partner lay face down on a bed or some other soft surface with her legs slightly spread. Lie on top of her, using your arms for support kind of like a plank and enter her from behind. Pillow Under Pelvis Carlee Ranger If the stacked feeling proves to be a little bit too much, you can also try placing a pillow underneath her pelvis. Flattened Doggy Carlee Ranger There are other spins on traditional doggy great for women as well.
Not only is this great for women that like to be restrained, but the lower back is also an erogenous zone of the female body. Woman On Top Carlee Ranger When it comes to female-friendly sex positions, being on top is definitely a pleaser! From a visual perspective, this position is just about as good as it gets for guys. Plus, because this position focuses more on rocking back and forth than thrusting in and out, men tend to last a bit longer too! Woman On Top Variation: Chair Carlee Ranger Some women may shy away from the standard cowgirl position because they feel too on display or are self-conscious in their movements, says Morse.
Sit up normally and have your partner straddle you so that you are face-to-face, or breasts-to-face, depending on height. Instead of bouncing up and down like they do in all of your favorite movies, have your partner swirl around in circles and rock back and forth so that the penis hits the wall of her G-spot over and over again. Add Sex Toys To The Mix Sometimes adding a great new toy to your bedroom repertoire can avoid the risk of sex beginning to feel routine.
They can intensify your sex life with your partner too. The opposite is actually true! It shows an adventurous attitude, you're open to exploring many avenues of pleasure because you feel safe and simultaneously liberated within your relationship.
The key is to communicate with your partner. It's best to use a lubricant that's free of chemicals like parabens and mineral oils, which are toxic and can break down silicon products.
I love the organic version of Pjur natural says Antonia Hall , a psychologist, relationship expert and sexpert and the award-winning author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life. This will lift her pelvis or backside! Can be fun for oral play as well! This paddle has a stiff leather side as well as a faux fur side, meaning you can switch things up between rough and gentle. It can take the evening in all sorts of new and different directions. Much like the paddle, there are two distinct ends to this whip, and one will be gentle while the other will be more of a spank.