If this is your first visit to this site I recommend reading my Virgo and Sagittarius compatibility article on this relationship first. I also have a Virgo man guide and Sagittarius woman guide which contain a lot of questions and answers related to this relationship.
If you would like to post your own experience or question please use the form at the bottom of this page. I've been married to a Virgo for 12 yrs and before that we were friends for 5 yrs.. I have so much to write.. He cheated on me with my own best friend.. I have feelings for a Virgo man. It has been a great experience because I want to understand everything about him. I usually don't care, our indifference has peaked my interest. As a Sag woman I find Virgo men to be a great intellectual stimulation and exploring new ideas.
WAY to fussy for me though, I need a carefree bubbly bee like me: He is Virgo and I'm a Sag we had a romance that started 17yrs ago that ended 2yrs later. We have always loved each other. He found me 15yrs later and there couldn't be a more compatible person to be with, We are soul mates. I've been with my Virgo 4 9 yrs and he is a complete asshole he's controlling at least use to be but me being a dec 8 sag he learned that he can't program me im a free spirit person I love him and trust he loves me even though he shows it in his own way their good men real good men and can be very loyal when there much older and happy cause they need money to be happy we bump heads a lot but nowhere as much as we use to were way to different like oranges and apples u have to keep yourself entertained when u have a Virgo cause there very simple they like to do things as a family but there fine at home and I can't do it so my advise for the sexy sagies out there cause that's what we are if your considering dealing with a Virgo make sure u make your own money so they can't tell u how to spend it cause they like to control shit so make sure u have your own b4 u leap into a dull ass relationship but the sex is amazing they are nasty which is a good thing as along as its with u only.
I m a saggy and was in a relation with a Virgo man which lasts for 5 yr. Sagittarius and Virgos are totally no no no Was married to Virgo for 5 years, divorced and dated another one for 3 years.
Now if someone mentions b-day end of August-September-I run as fast as can. When he found out I was pregnant his control button hit an all time high. Our relationship isn't that bad right now but I'll just have to wait until we start living together to really see any major changes. I understand our differences but when you are concerned with the stability of the marriage and family the way to go is Virgo. Its damn true about these cold souls. Am a sag and my ex is a Virgo.
I couldn't understand him, his a damn cold, emotionless son of a am sorry , ba strangely so sweet and attractive. We ve met several times affair en suddenly am understand who he is, he doesn't talk much, I always think he's angry or sad when he isn't.
Its so depressing to a point I wish he just died. In bed the guy is so shy, he doesn't want to do some stuff with me, when I ask him why he doesn't do this and that he says " I just don't like en" Virgo men esp are born under some sweet curse, they have almost everything a woman can die for but sadly they aren't willing to give out en share these sweetness about them.
Oh another thing, I like minis en stuff that show my curves, but whenever am meeting this guy, I have to put on descent long if not casual, "old fashioned" clothes to please him, I always feel uneasy in the clothes I have to wear while am with him, ba if I want something from this guy, I try playing this old fashioned tunes with him.
Am glad because I know am the only fire in his life at the moment, the wife is just a mother of his kid and his cook and maybe some innocent, unsexy maid running around his house cleaning and washing without even sex as a thank you in the night.
Av learned to be giving him his time before he calls me or emails or sms's, I simply do this by having some passionate short time affairs to 4get him a bit waiting for the moment hell communicate, it works! I might admit I never loved any guy the way I do love this Virgo freezer. Ba it pleases me 2 know that even when he's quiet for long, he's working sleepless on his unfinished projects, or duties instead of chasing the sluts around..
I met in feb with my Virgo ex, spend a one week holiday at a place and I bet he enjoyed while I found it dead frustratingly boring, en since then we ve only talked once on phone. The last he told me know that I love you, en from then his cell goes dead, no mail replies, no smses, am used to this now, I get mad , really mad at times, en decide to suppress this anger and longings of him on simply having some good time with other hot guys who never mind one night stands or something, en during this time I tend to 4get him a bit, so it works.
But any Sagittarius can get any man she wants, even this perfect Virgos anything ba any man who is willing to hear those sweet appealing words from any woman. I had a 1yr relationship with a charming Virgo.. It was tough to understand a Virgo, myself being a 10th December-ian, since they are neither similar. He was nice ,intellectual, caring and thoughtful! Yet overcritical, fussy, controlling..
They are worth spending time and emotions on!! I've been in a on again off again relationship with a Virgo man and its been frustrating! I can't just forget him and get him out of my system because the sex is amazing.
He is an asshole, ignores me when he chooses, then expects me to be back with him as if nothing is wrong. If the above women is correct, I don't think he is with other women and I think he really likes me but just doesn't know how to show it. I'm engaged to a Virgo man. We've been together for more than two years now, and it's been interesting.
For part of this time he was out of work, so had plenty of time to obsess over MY life. Thankfully, though, he's back to work and I can get back to being my independent self. Sure, we argue, it's often a battle of wills with us. Thankfully, since we're older than most engaged couples, we each bring plenty of relationship experience into the mix. Using past experience and knowing ourselves has helped tremendously in strengthening our bond.
Unlike most Virgo men, my husband-to-be loves to be out and about with me. I'd rather be on my own sometimes. He's also an organizer One of the best parts about our relationship is the sex.
I am a VERY sexual woman, and he is very adventurous. So, needless to say, I'm a very satisfied Sagittarius! Maybe it has to do with the different planets and risings and such Either way, we've found ourselves to be very compatible overall, and I can't imagine a better soul mate!
These stories have certainly made me feel better. I'm a Sag woman and my ex is a dull, boring and dull oh said that already Virgo. We were together almost 2 years and I was miserable each day of it. He was the most emotionless person I ever met and I think he died every night before we went to sleep because We rarely had sex! Whenever we did have sex, I always had to initiate it and it was the same boring position. I honestly think this man was born without a pulse.
He lies about nothing and stresses about every small detail. He seemed to be very family oriented which I liked He took on so many tasks to fill up his day but turned into a lump on a log when he came home to me. His sneaky ways and dishonesty almost sent me to the broke house as he always talked a good game but did little to back it up. He only looked to have it all together but the guy was totally insecure on the inside.
NOT a match made in heaven for this Sag girl!! I am currently involved with a virgo,I really like him he is sensitive,caring,sexy,always ask about my kids buuuuttt He is insecure. He doesn't recieve compliments well and he acts like the ugly duckling. He also likes to connect with old flings and conceal our relationship in front of people like he is trying to be slick.
I am not sure just watching for now to see what happens I am currently married to a vigo man we split 7 months after marrying. We are pending divorce now. He's very critical, "jack of all trades but Master of none".. Before him I dated 2 other virgos and they ended almost the same way. Yes, when someone tells me they're a virgo, I run as fast as I can Dated a Virgo man for three years, he was a great love learning experience. I found out what I was capable of giving and taking.
Didn't work out because he didn't feel as free as us Sag's do. Emotionally consumed in his own world and searching for perfection in others and not within himself. It was really hard to make it work when your partner is very critical.
Kinda hard to enjoy yourself as well when you are surrounded by a debbie downer. There was also more negative thoughts of each other then good. I think it has to do with the fact that both parites signs don't like to bow down and agree to disagree. The concept of "winning" the arguement needed some compromise. Although it was a good relationship, I will take all the good from it and move on because there was more negative memories then good.
I did not feel attractive after a certain point in the relationship and that was when I knew, it wouldn't work. It would have just continued to be a uphill battle with l ots of scars. I am currently dating a Virgo, and it is not how I expected a relationship to be.
He lacks in romance, he doesn't try to surprise me at all. He trips if I talk to my guy friends. He lacks that self-confidence and swears he is ugly. It is really annoying to always be the first to start off something Not the greatest kisser out there either, and when we get to arguments he is always saying things that are irrelevant, like "are you seeing someone else? Some romance, some surprises, a guy who knows what they want and wont critize everything about you.