An online sex challenge to have sex every day for 30 days is gaining steam, but to many, it also sounds exhausting. About a month ago, a few Reddit users posted this: Here is the list before we start. It is likely to be edited per the rules.
Any comments or feedback would be appreciated. No edits after the challenge begins. Partners can also add anything to the list if both partners agree. If a day is missed, an extra day will be added to the challenge increasing the challenge length from 30, 31, 32, and so on. The challenge will not exceed 40 days. The goal is to push your comfort zone and try something new.
Here is the challenge list in full. Would you be up for it? Day 1—Have sex at a time other than before bed. Lunch time romp, morning sex, or after work workout. Day 2— Browse a list, book of sex positions, or watch a Kama Sutra video together. Pick a few new positions to try. Be sure to tell your partner what you think looks enjoyable and why.
Stick to the easy stuff. No point getting an injury on day two. Day 3—Have sex twice in a day. Day 4—Read erotica together before sex. Find good erotica online and each pick a short story. Be extra soapy but use caution. Water based lube not shower water or soap is advised. Day 6— Full body massage before initiating sex. Two or more in a day.
Park, make out and have car sex. Maybe just do it in the car in the garage. Day 9—Sex while seated on chair or sofa, facing each other and facing away.
Day 10—Sensual oil massage before sex. Towels or old sheets recommended Day 11— Oral Sex only. Tell your partner what works and keep at it until you both orgasm. Day 12—Let her dominate. Tell your partner what you want. Ropes or handcuffs Day 13—She brings him to orgasm, no intercourse, hands, mouth, and body only. Use breast or feet to bring partner to orgasm. Day 14—Find a new place in the house for sex. Kitchen, bath, living room, chair, sofa, floor, etc.
Day 15—Each partner brings self to an orgasm seated in front of partner on bed. Same time is ideal. Share what you are feeling. Use what you like. Day 16—Advanced level Kama Sutra. Find two or three challenging positions to try. Day 17— Add toys into your love making. Vibrators, dildos, cock rings, beads and ticklers. This session is all about finding what works.
We-Vibe or other shared sex toys. Day 18— Watch porn together. Movie or 30 minutes minimum. Masturbate self or partner or have sex while watching. Start with something safe if you have never watched before. Day 19—Sex without intercourse. Hands, body, toys, mouths. Day 20—Share fantasies today by email.
Day 21—Visit a sex store together. You both must make a purchase. Sex toys, sex games, videos, or books. Day 22— He brings her to orgasm, no intercourse. Hands, mouth, toys only Day 23—Take a breather… enjoy a night of just sex Day 24—Sex game… dice, spinner, or app. Find something fun to play. Day 25— Slow it down sex. This is a marathon, slow and steady. Day 26—Let him dominate. Ropes or handcuffs Day 27—Dinner out with under the table touching. Then go home or hotel for sex.
Day 28—Multiple Orgasm Day. Have a few minutes cool down with caressing after an orgasm then try to start it back up again, or just keep going! Today, one is never enough!
Day 29—Flip a coin, Pick a dominant. Day 30—Stay up all night—or as long as you can, having sex. Have as much sex as possible today. Explore 27 days of favorites today and try to have either 5 orgasms or sex 5 times. That sounds great but pretty exhausting haha. I will try it. I've noticed that once he gets in the mood, sex follows pretty quickly but it takes a little extra oomph to get him there. This is a personal challenge, not a legal contract. This is a challenge and starts with consent.
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