For one thing, doing the girl-on-top position can be more confusing than you think. Where do you put your hands? Should you stare him in the eye or keep your eyes sensually closed?
Are you… hurting him? On top of all of those questions, being on top can easily make you feel super vulnerable.
Can we also talk about the work it takes? Unlike missionary, being on top requires you to move around and get things done. Being on top is tricky! You might have to experiment to find the right movement and position that both you and bae enjoy. We both enjoy it… until we end up punching each other in the genitals.
We gathered some helpful advice from our readers that will answer you sex position questions. When you're on top, work on moving your hips back and forth more than bouncing up and down on him.
My boyfriend hates me bouncing because it sometimes hurts his penis or he slips right out. You need to try out different movements when on top a few times to figure out what feels best and what to do to stop his penis from slipping out of you.
Sometimes my boyfriend slips out too when I'm on top, but we've found a position that I think we're both liking, where I'm laying on my back, while on top of him. It's good if you're on a couch like we were or at least on a bed with a headboard to give you something to hold onto and push off from. He can also finger you really easily in that position, so having him lay down, and lay on top of him is a position you should definitely try to prevent him from slipping out.
Reverse cowgirl is a position you can try. You're still on top but instead of being face to face with your partner, you're turned around with your butt facing him. During regular cowgirl, I've had issues with my partner staying inside me, but I don't think I've ever had a problem with him popping out doing reverse. Plus- it gives him a nice view of your butt.
I prefer being on top during sex when my boyfriend is sitting up, like on a couch or in a chair. I think it's a lot easier to be on top that way and I like the angle better. Sometimes I'll put my feet under me so I am in a squat position, that way I am kind of hovering over him.
This squatting position works better when on a bed though and I like to lean back on my hands to balance myself. That angle allows him to go even deeper inside me, which feels amazing. My suggestion to this being on top problem is try laying on him chest to chest, but of course have your head to the side so he's not suffocating. Have your knees bent to keep you up a bit so you're not putting all of your weight on him and you can prop yourself up on your forearms.
I hope this suggestion helps! To have my partner stay inside of me when I'm on top during sex, I noticed I have to stay focused on what I'm doing and not let my mind wander. The girl is typically in control when on top, so the guy moves with you. I'm sometimes worried about us being in-sync, which throws off my rhythm, causing him to slip right out. Don't think too much about having an orgasm or anything like that, just focus on moving your hips and staying in rhythm with each other.
Normally I position myself when on top, with my legs outside of his. But to have him go deeper and guarantee he'll stay inside me and not pop out, I sometimes position my legs in between his. This simple tweak in the position can make a difference and help solve your problem. Which technique is your favorite? Let us know in the comments below!