We wink at him. We take his hand. For women, our primary sex organs are our brains. For us to get in the mood, our brains have to be engaged. Take flirting out of the equation, and you take away one of your primary tools for boosting your libido!
Just as playing with your husband helps you laugh together, flirting helps you to laugh—and binds you together because you share a relationship with your spouse that is totally unique.
Here are some ideas to get the flirting rolling: Click To Tweet 1. Leave a love note on the mirror: Using a dry erase marker or even lipstick!
To be even bolder, draw a picture of what you want to do later. Kiss in the car at stoplights! That never gets old. My husband and I actually got that fortune cookie once! Set up a cozy love nest for watching movies Want to watch a flick tonight? Share pillows and a blanket and play footsie, says J, from Hot, Holy and Humorous. If you are near his place of work during the day, stick under his windshield whipper. Get the waitress to put on his plate when you are eating out.
Get the kids in on it too! Click here for 25 ways to flirt with your husband! Stick Notes in his lunch One fan on my Facebook Page shared this idea: I also write stuff on his brown bag lunch. For a while, I thought it might embarrass him. But when I stopped, he pouted.
Some are just sweet. For my Red Hot Lover! Flash him—but not in public! One of my commenters on this site also recommended doing chores vigorously—and bralessly—so he can appreciate the bounce! When you mop the floor, wear a skirt but go commando and get down on all fours to see if he notices.
Stick a surprise somewhere interesting Another Facebook Page reader emailed me this tidbit: My husband recently got back from a long out of state trip. That was not what I expected! It was a sweet gift, and his creativity was so memorable! Strip Battleship an item of clothing for each sunk ship , Strip Scrabble for every word worth points , Strip Monopoly every time you pass go or an item of clothing to get out of jail , etc.
Get him all worked up while you carry on a normal conversation! I have some other posts that may be more useful. I hope those help!
Flirting Rules of Engagement: Now, a few ground rules. I find you attractive. But does flirting mean that you have to follow through each and every time? But allow me to let you in on a little insight. They want to feel wanted. Flirting is one of those ways that they feel wanted. When men get regular and frequent sex, they become much more secure and confident in the fact that we love them.
Great Sex Challenge Flirt with Your Husband! Sprinkle these ideas into your next few days, until they become natural. And think of some of your own! Throw yourself into them. Have fun with them. Get in a truly flirty frame of mind, and you may find that your own libido goes up because the fun quotient in your marriage goes up! It's expanded, it's written for couples not just women , and it's easy to use!
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