Sophie Saint Thomas By role-playing with your partner, you can abandon all inhibitions, get into character, and act out your most secret sexual fantasies. Did you have a crush on a hot professor in college, a former boss, or the cute barista from your local coffee shop? Or did you perhaps find yourself aroused by the idea of anonymous sex with a stranger? With role-playing, you can do all of those things and more — without cheating on your partner or leaving the security of your current relationship.
You've likely seen a variety of role-playing scenarios depicted in your favorite movies and television shows. Remember when Samantha from Sex and the City would only have sex with her hunky boyfriend Jerry "Smith" Jerrod if they were role-playing?
However, if you're new to role-playing, you might be unsure of where to start. From classic characters like French maid to less conventional ideas like photographer and model , we've detailed seven fun and inspiring role-playing ideas. Advertisement Did we mention that role-playing can involve costumes? It's basically the grown-up version of playing dress up, except orgasms are involved. Pull out your bondage ropes to tie up the hostage, grab some rum just remember to drink responsibly when adding sex to the mix , and demand that the hostage "walk the plank" — it's up to you to decide what that means.
Advertisement 3 of 8 Two Strangers Not all role-playing scenarios need be confined to the bedroom. Get out of your living spaces and pretend to be two strangers who meet at the bar and fall in lust over martinis. Maybe you're so into each other and excited that you have to have a quickie in the bar restroom. If you're the secretary, dress up in an old blouse that you don't mind being ripped open, or try a suit if you're the executive ties can be fun, too.
The best part of this scenario? Having one of you give oral sex under a desk if you don't have one at home, a kitchen or dining room table works with a little imagination. By playing masseuse and client, not only does someone get a massage, but a happy ending is guaranteed. Not sure how to give a massage? Here are some tips, plus some great massage candles to try.
This role-playing arousal can last well beyond that particular night, since you can always look back at those photos. If you aren't down with having nudes taken, use a toy camera and pretend.
Role-playing is all about imagination, after all. Have the maid get down on her knees to get those hard-to-reach spots and go from there. Plus, if you invest in a duster , you might actually get some real cleaning done. It's multi-tasking at its finest. If you have a vagina, play patient while your partner plays doctor and examines your sexy bits, pinching nipples and inserting fingers into your vagina we suggest buying black latex gloves. This one's easy to try, since you can get supplies from your local drug store , although if you really like it, some hard-core medical fetish supply stores are happy to serve you.